Family Violence
Family Violence is the abuse of power within a family or a relationship where one person trusts or depends on another. This abuse of power threatens the survival, security or well-being of that person. Any person in a family can be a victim of violence; man, woman, child or elderly.
Intimate Partner Violence is an Epidemic in York Region
In 2023, York Region declared intimate partner violence an epidemic related to the very high prevalence of IPV occurrences in York Region communities. (York Region Committee of the Whole, Item H.1.1., September 2023)
In 2024, York Region Police responded to over 11,000 incidents of family and intimate partner violence. That's about 32 disputes every day (York Region Police 2024 Annual Statistics Report).
Types of violence
Child abuse/neglect – Abuse of someone under the age of 18
Parent violence – Abuse of a parent by a child or adolescent; results in challenging power dynamics within a family
Intimate partner violence – Violence within marriages, or common-law/dating relationships; during relationship or after a relationship has ended
Elder abuse – Actions or failure to act resulting in harm to older adults
"Honour-based" violence – The use of violence in an attempt to protect or restore family honour
Underage/forced marriage – Marriage without consent or with someone under the age of 16
Female genital mutilation – Injuring/removing external female genital organs without medical reasons
Cyber abuse – Abuse using the Internet; can include cyberbullying, luring, or distribution of intimate pictures without consent
Human trafficking – The control and exploitation of a person; can include sexual exploitation or forced labour
Forms of violence
Physical – Intentionally using force against someone (examples: pushing, hitting, kicking, pinching, choking, stabbing, shooting, throwing objects, burning)
Sexual – Forced sexual acts, coercion or exploitation (examples: touching without consent, continuing sexual activity after being asked to stop)
Emotional – Controlling, isolating or causing fear in someone using words/actions (examples: threats, constant yelling, preventing someone from seeing family/friends, destroying belongings, bullying)
Financial – Control or exploitation of someone using money or belongings (examples: withholding/controlling money, forcing someone to sign documents or sell belongings)
Neglect – Failing to provide basic necessities (examples: inadequate food, clothing, healthcare, personal hygiene, supervision)
Exposure to Violence – Being present while family violence is occurring (examples: hearing/seeing violence between parents or family members)
What kind of relationship are you in?
Is your relationship cruising on green, stuck at yellow - or waving the red flag? Take our quick Relationship quiz and find out.
Healthy relationships are based on equality and respect.
Know the signs of abuse and get help. Do not handle the situation alone, contact the police for help. In the event of an emergency, dial 9-1-1.
Call Assaulted Women’s Helpline at 1-866-863-0511 to create a safety plan – keep you and your child(ren) safe.
Related Resources
- iHeal - A free, private and secure app for women who have experienced abuse from a current or past partner. It provides personalized safety tools and information
- Duluth Power and Control Wheel
- York Region's Violence Against Women Coordinating Committee Resource Guide: safety planning and community supports
Where to Go for Help
Crisis Services
| Service | Description |
|---|---|
| 310-COPE | Community Crisis Response Service. 24-hour crisis line: 1-855-310-COPE (2673) or Live Chat |
| 9-8-8: Suicide Crisis Helpline | A safe space to talk 24/7. Call or text 988 |
| Sandgate Women’s Shelter | Supports and services for women and their children who have experienced violence. 24-hour hotline: 1-800-661-8294 |
| Yellow Brick House | Services and prevention programs to meet the diverse needs of individuals, families and communities impacted by violence. 24-hour crisis line: Call or text 1-800-263-3247 |
| Women’s Support Network of York Region Crisis Line | Free, nonjudgemental, confidential services for anyone who has experienced sexual violence in their lifetime. 24/7 crisis line: 905-895-7313 or 1-800-263-6734 Anti-Human Trafficking Case Manager: 905-895-3646 |
| York Region Centre for Community Safety | Connects individuals experiencing violence to needed supports and creates seamless transition to services. Call: 905-836-7601 or 1-855-541-2220 (Monday to Friday, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m.) |
| Assaulted Women’s Helpline | Toll Free: 1-866-863-0511 TTY: 416-364-8762 or 1-866-863-7868 Mobile: #SAFE (#7233) |
| York Region Emergency and Transitional Housing | If you or someone you know is experiencing homelessness, emergency and transitional housing can provide temporary housing and wraparound supports. In addition, drop-in programs offer supports and services to residents in need, during the day. |
| Police | York Region Police-Victim Support Services: 905-953-5363 In an emergency: call Police at 911 In cases of non-emergencies: call Police at 1-866-876-5423 |
| Health Connection | Registered nurses provide confidential health teaching, parenting information and referrals for the Healthy Babies Healthy Children program, infant feeding clinics and perinatal mental health support. Call: 1-800-361-5653 Chat: york.ca/NurseChat |
| Domestic Abuse and Sexual Assault (DASA) | Provides free, patient centered care for recent victims of intimate partner abuse, human trafficking and sexual assault. |
| 211 Ontario | Free, confidential service that connects people to the social and community supports they need. Dial or text: 211, chat or email |
| York Region Children’s Aid Society | Strives to ensure the safety and well-being of children and youth in the community and partner with parents, caregivers and community to provide a safe environment through equitable, culturally aligned services. Call: 905-895-2318 or 1-800-718-3850 |
| Jewish Family and Child Services | Counselling services and education programs to increase safety and security, reduce the effects of poverty and improve mental health and wellness. Call: 416-638-7800, ext. 6234 |